How has your pregnancy journey been so far?
It’s been a bit of a rollercoaster in the best and hardest ways. Moments of surprise, bliss, excitement and real happiness, mixed with exhaustion, confusion, hormones, vulnerability, and a lot of surrender. It’s stretched me more than I expected, physically and emotionally, but also softened me in ways I didn’t see coming.
How are you feeling connected to motherhood already?
If I’m honest, I didn’t feel a connection straight away, which I found really confronting and at times upsetting. I thought it would just click, and it would be this magical experience I’ve seen people describe. But it’s been building slowly, in quieter moments. It’s taught me a lot about being present, letting go of expectations, and trusting that connection doesn’t always look how you think it will.
Do you have any advice for other soon-to-be mothers navigating this stage?
Try not to put pressure on how you think you should feel. Everyone talks about this instant connection or glow, but it’s not always like that and that’s ok. Give yourself space, be gentle with yourself, and trust your own pace.